tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14973093.post6726365954441842397..comments2024-02-12T11:17:41.537+01:00Comments on Ore's Notes: SisOrehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10230896381942258816noreply@blogger.comBlogger11125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14973093.post-24812431748578217532013-10-13T22:53:07.950+01:002013-10-13T22:53:07.950+01:00Thank you so much, Okaima!!!! I guess some people ...Thank you so much, Okaima!!!! I guess some people just don't know what to say and some others think they know how best you should mourn.<br /><br />Your words mean so much. :)Orehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10230896381942258816noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14973093.post-87348977788607256362013-10-11T03:25:20.110+01:002013-10-11T03:25:20.110+01:00"...sinful to mourn her and that it showed a ..."...sinful to mourn her and that it showed a lack of faith"?? Really?!!<br /><br />Not only insensitive but SO SO 100% clueless and worse than legally blonde (sorry, cant be politically correct). <br /><br />Anyhow, I'm glad you ignored her - of that I am confident:-) In your time, in His grace, at your pace - God didnt call u to be superwoman; even Jesus wept. & in every day of your life, and so many loving ways, you, Mummy, Daddy, Seke jnr & Omono honor Ayoola. Hugs. xoxo. Okaima.Kekehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00555544705940729147noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14973093.post-27479886988905081732012-08-21T22:40:50.750+01:002012-08-21T22:40:50.750+01:00Thank you, Grace. I'd already decided to find ...Thank you, Grace. I'd already decided to find my own path in mourning her. Even just last week I heard that it's sinful to mourn her and that it showed a lack of faith.Orehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10230896381942258816noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14973093.post-45353585765234039992012-08-21T21:36:39.402+01:002012-08-21T21:36:39.402+01:00Please don't listen to the "be strong&quo...Please don't listen to the "be strong" people. How can you not grieve the loss of such an extraordinary person, sibling and friend? <br /><br />The prospect of coming up with a vision statement for my life is a bit daunting. It's so much easier to just 'wait and see what happens.'Gracenoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14973093.post-54328559745955445952012-07-31T05:27:43.061+01:002012-07-31T05:27:43.061+01:00Ore, am sorry for your loss. I never met Ayoola, b...Ore, am sorry for your loss. I never met Ayoola, but i feel like i have known her for a long time, reading through what people wrote about her. The lord is your strength. I pray nothing like this ever happens in your family again.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14973093.post-25498094617175937562012-07-07T01:08:30.740+01:002012-07-07T01:08:30.740+01:00Ore,
your lil' sis? I am so, so sorry my dear...Ore,<br /><br />your lil' sis? I am so, so sorry my dear. May God bind your wound and heal your heart and family. Hugs<br />SongReachSongReachhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10396131852776627065noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14973093.post-88222499983746356822012-07-05T22:48:23.708+01:002012-07-05T22:48:23.708+01:00Hi Ore
Lovely post. Got me thinking as well. We ar...Hi Ore<br />Lovely post. Got me thinking as well. We are all here for a purpose and it is important to fulfil that destiny. I never met Ayoola but wow, she made an impact.Someone on facebook described her as "Pure" wow....It just goes to show how much an impact she made. It is not how long but how well, and from what i have seen, Ayoola lived well. Thanks for sharing this with us...and thanks for responding to my email.Take the time to grieve.. The Lord will comfort and heal you and yours. <br /><br />Remain blessed<br />Abimbola Dare<br />@bimbylads<br />xx<br />Abimbola DareAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14973093.post-38387939553204285152012-07-04T22:09:10.039+01:002012-07-04T22:09:10.039+01:00Thank you, Anon!! I fully intend to honour her lif...Thank you, Anon!! I fully intend to honour her life in the best way I know how.Orehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10230896381942258816noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14973093.post-89138695211175675872012-07-01T12:22:30.768+01:002012-07-01T12:22:30.768+01:00I agree completely that telling you HOW to grieve ...I agree completely that telling you HOW to grieve is one of the well-intentioned by unhelpful advice that we often get.<br />Take your time, let the process flow as and like it chooses to, and will.<br />when it is time, what will change, will change and what won't, won't. It is a very individual process, and only you and time will determine what comes out of the other side.<br />In the mean time, honor to the beautiful person that you know (using the tense deliberately) is a good way to be present in your experience.<br />God bless you Ore, and dear God, thank you for Ayoola.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14973093.post-39819934160179995022012-06-28T23:21:13.978+01:002012-06-28T23:21:13.978+01:00Thanks, GL!!!Thanks, GL!!!Orehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10230896381942258816noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14973093.post-4287278490177977472012-06-28T15:32:39.711+01:002012-06-28T15:32:39.711+01:00I feel you on this one. As the say, it is well.I feel you on this one. As the say, it is well.GLnoreply@blogger.com